He has showed you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God? — Micah 6:8

Information & Contemplation: Week Seven

This week’s emphasis on the industrialization of higher education led me to consider the reason we have been led to view efficiency as the sole source of a system’s legitimacy. I think there is a connection between viewing the efficient functioning of the system as its own reward, and an absence of values which uphold the dignity and sanctity of life.

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Sun, May 13th
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Visiting Whidbey Island

Tim and I went on our first camping trip together this weekend. We stayed two nights on Forest Loop in Deception Pass State Park.

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Sun, Apr 29th

The Nice Girl Syndrome

by Beverly Engel

If your basic needs for nurturing, protection, and support were not met by neglectful or self-absorbed parents, you will have a particularly difficult time knowing how to meet those needs now. It is as if there is a disconnect inside you between what you need and providing it for yourself. A child needs to receive love to be able to feel love. This includes love for oneself. If we do not love ourselves, we will not be motivated to take care of ourselves. Those who were neglected or emotionally abused often look at those who are motivated to take care of themselves with wonder. “Where do they get the motivation?” they ask themselves. “Why do they care so much about their health or the way they look?” They are poignantly aware that there is something missing inside themselves, something that creates the kind of motivation that would cause someone to say no to a piece of cake, the kind of motivation to get up at six o’clock in the morning in order to get to the gym before going to work, the kind of motivation that would help someone leave an abusive partner. The something that is missing is self-love.

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Sat, Feb 11th

Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional